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Our Living Doll

August 13th, 2008

Our Living Doll

Originally uploaded by winx

My daughter and granddaughter spent the day with us yesterday so we were able to have lots of cuddles and watch with pride as Melissa cares for her baby girl. It is a great joy to have the chance to be as close to my granddaughter as my mother was to my girls. I only hope that in future days Charlotte will speak of me with the same affection as my daughters do when they speak of their grandmother. My Mum was an inspiration, I hope that I can be too.
Stay safe and well beautiful granddaughter for you are ‘Our Living Doll’

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Generations

July 30th, 2008

Mother and Daughter

Originally uploaded by YTruly

Where did the time go? My baby girl grew up and now has a baby girl of her own. Now she too will understand a mother’s love. I am so proud of her.
Welcome to the world little granddaughter. We look forward to watching you grow and hope that the road you travel is a smooth one.
The one thing that clouds this moment in time is the fact that my mother is not alive to see her great-granddaughter. I believe that she would have been over the moon as she had a very close relationship with my daughters.
Congratulations to Melissa & Chris (two very proud parents)

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A tough week

November 29th, 2007

My new philosophy is “Count your blessings not your bills”

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Tranquil Tarra Valley

October 21st, 2007

The bubble & splash of the water as it flows over the rocks in the stream, abundTarra Valleyant bird-life fluttering nearby, shady places to rest and take it all in, how I wish I was still there.

The beautiful Tarra Valley, just north of Yarram in the Gippsland region of Victoria is where I was lucky enough to spend a couple of days in the company of my loving husband this past week. We stayed in a cabin in a caravan park alongside a beautiful stream where we caught sight of brown trout, fresh water crayfish, eels and even a platypus.Tarra Valley stream Every day we walked through quiet ferny gullies breathing in the crisp clean air & reveling in the beauty of our surrounds.

Of an evening we would light the wood heater in our cabin, pour a glass or two of wine & listen to the birds settling in nearby trees after their busy day. The crisp night air was full of the sounds of frogs calling to each other & the stream continually splashing over the rocks as it flowed onto the ocean beyond.  Oh how I long to be there now…

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A drought of one sort or another

October 5th, 2007

While taking a shower this morning it came to mind how we utilise our water is rather like how people utilise their money. Until we have a drought we do not think about it much.

When we have a regular supply we do not think as much about how we use it for example when I was growing up we would spend our summers playing under a sprinkler but now due to the drought we have restrictions and children no longer experience that joy. A regular healthy paycheck also means we are free to sprinkle the money around.

Money which flows into our household can be restricted just as a river can affected by someone further upstream. Government taxes can eat into the flow of money just like people further up the river who divert water for their own purposes, although both would say this is done for good reason, it still restricts the flow.

Okay now the water/money has reached us how can we make good use of it? If we are smart we will try to make the best use of what we have such as recycling our water from our showers and washing machines to use in the garden. While my daughters were growing up I used to sew clothes for them which meant that my hobby also helped the family budget therefore fulfilling two purposes just like recycling the water. Growing veggies is also another way of doing the same.

waterfallA budget is a way of controlling the flow of money the way you would control the flow of water to get the best use of it. Just as restricting the flow of water too much will cause it to break it’s banks so too will having a budget which is too tight. Guide the money allowing for ebbs and flows, discounted items or unexpected bills, a little something special now and then will lessen the urge to just blow the lot.

Saving for a rainy(?) day. If we only could get water out of the tap when it rained then it would be a long time between drinks. The people who supply water to our taps know that they need a store of water to cope with days in between. So too we should make sure we have a store of money for those days between pay packets, a little something at least to tide us over, even a sip of water is better than none.

Thinking along the lines of storing water, having a well thought out, well constructed dam does more than just hold the water. A problem that can often occur with dams is that the water evaporates similar to putting your money somewhere which allows fees and charges to drain off your savings. Having a large, shallow dam leads to more evaporation whereas a smaller yet deeper dam does not. Putting a larger amount of money into one account can be good as interest will build on what is already there.

On a hot day, in a dry climate, a cool deep dam, surrounded by trees for shade, abundant bird-life flying back and forth, who would not be impressed? Just as a good dam lessens the effect of a dry spell so too does putting away a little money to be used in tougher times.

Could you endure a money drought?

(I so wish I was clever enough to do illustrations to add to my posts)

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Shadows of the Mind

October 4th, 2007

Shadows are always around although sometimes they more noticeable than others. They subtly add dimension to a subject except when bright light appears the shadow becomes sharp seemingly taking on a character of it’s own. Sometimes the glimpse of a shadow out the corner of your eye can give you a fright until you stop and realise that it was only a shadow.

Memories are like shadows, for the most part they exist in the background addingMy Mum dimension to our lives but when bought out to the light they become clearer even taking on a life of their own. When you bring a memory out into the light to share with others you will find that as with a shadow everyone’s perspective on the same subject is a little different. Without memories our lives would seem very one dimensional. Memories of my mother bring back her warm smile, her comforting hugs, her sense of humour and her good advice, indeed all these memories add dimension to my life and hers.

Why all this talk about memories? Well recently I had one of those memories which catches you unawares and it quite startled me how vivid it could be.

Many years ago when I was 25 I was diagnosed with Luekemia. It was a huge shock as it happened so quickly, virus like symptons on a Saturday, doctors visit on the Sunday, blood test on the Monday and Tuesday I was in hospital told that I may not make it through the week. I had 1% immunity and was not allowed to have any physical contact with my husband or 2 daughters (11 months and 3 years of age at that time). No hugging, no kissing what a huge shock to be locked away and given medicine (chemotherapy drugs) which made me a lot sicker before I could get better and resume my life again.

I am well now, it seems just a bad dream which happened so long ago. I do look at life a little differently and have definite views on what I believe is important in life which can rub people the wrong way sometimes when they get to be so busy just getting through the day that they neglect what is truly important in their lives.

My daughters are about the age that I was when life changed so drasically for me and the memory of that time is as sharp as a shadow in the bright light of day. Make the best of each day my girls and treasure the important things in life.